dealing with death children

i don't know how you deal with losing a child. I'm not so sure that i can ever get through this, how do you do it? I mean get up every day and not feel guilty for living without them. I feel so guilty every day for getting out of bed and her not being here. I need some advice please.

Hi, I am having a very difficult time dealing with family without having modd swings. I am trying to go to meetings, but my schedule and family situations are keeping me from doing so. Funny, I could have gone to bars and just neglected family in the past, but now, I am dealing with family situations and trying to be present. However, my children and my husband are DRIVING ME CRAZY. I keep serenity prayering and it helps for a little bit.

for the baby and how much will effect him. I usually a very emotional person when dealing with death and I feel like a horrible person for not allowing myself to feel bad. What do I do???

The original autopsy showed no cause of death, but suddenly, 9 months later and after further testing of heart tissue sample and blood samples, the medical examiner has come back with the cause of death being Cardiomyopathy and Mitral Valve prolapse. Why would this have not been found in the original autopsy? Also...after her death, her husband admitted to giving her Cialis because he said he had heard it worked better in woman than in men for boosting a low sex drive.

I was wondering if there is anyone out there dealing with children concerning bipolar. I have 7 year old grandson that is om foclin but has stomach problems and recently the diagnosis is leaning more toward bipolar and has been put on a mood stabilizer tryleptal 300mg half in the morning and a whole pill at night. Anyone with any information please share with a concerned grandmother.

I had my first son, Jeremiah, 3years ago. My husband and I really wanted a girl, but when we found out it was a boy, I actually found myself to be UPSET. For a while after I found out, I walked around wishing I wasn't pregnant with him. Of course I love my son to death, and can't imagine life without him. Now that I'm pregnant again, I'm having this mothers instinct that its a girl. But I don't want to go through the disappointment again.

Anyone else ever deal with this or something similar? Maybe even not having energy to play with the children you already have? I just feel so guilty.

Just like falling in love takes time so does dealing with a passing of a loved one.Just opposite ways of feeling.Love and loss,two parts of life that both hurt.For loving anyone or anything,such as a pet can lead to pain.All feelings lead to pain and despair,eventually.So do we stop feeling,stop loving,stop caring,no we just learn to adjust to our new lives without that loved one that pet,that friend.whom ever.Death ends a life,not a relationship.

As the mother of three children I cannot begin to imagine the heartache and loss. I know that with the loss of other family members, it changes you somewhat. I think that when you lose someone that you loved with all your heart there is a part of you that goes with them and never returns. You learn to go forward as a different you. To have that be compounded by the loss being a child is simpy unfathomable to me. So very very sorry!

Oh wow what awful things to hear..i havent dealt with it myself but its really sad to see racism still exists in this day and age..racist people are patethic and need to pitied if you ask me,screw em they arent worth it hun,we cant control ignorant people...nobody is born a racist its something thats taught and shame on those people...best thing you can do is just focus on your children and raise them to rise above such ignorance..

im 19 wks pregnant and i have a fetus with a diagnosis of CPC im scared to death because i have to wait 3 wks to go to a specialist...anyone have any hopes or ideas??

My husband was not with us. With me were my two children. One was almost three and the other was one and a half. When my husband finally joined us they were both surprised, although the elder seemed annoyed. When dealing with children we have to creep into their lives to understand them. They do not see things as we do.

I have a friend who lost his wife a few months ago to cancer and is having a very hard time dealing with it. Yesterday I received another email from him (I live 300 miles away) and following is an excerpt of that email; " I"m not doing very well with this situation here. I don't know how people survive the sadness, loneliness, pain & guilt. My daughter said, why do you feel guilty, dad? I told her it's because she's dead,and I'm not.

Well im pregnant 17 yrs old i have a step ma who is 21 my dad is 43 thier happy and i love my step ma my sister who is 18 hates her she wanted her real parents totether her and my real mom r causing alot of drama n problems she finally moved out but still cause drama my step ma just lets gods grace handle it all ill do that and the stress comes such better and oh ya she was pregnant not to long ago dealing with it dont stress she lost the first one at 6 months just pray thats my advice :) but sh

Im very sorry for your loss, but please remember that you have gained a beautiful guardian angel. Iy is hard but remember that when the time is right you will have another baby to have for the rest of your life. Loosing a child is the worst thing a mother can deal with but just dont lose faith and remember you have someone looking after you and your family. Try and get your feelings out, there's nothing wrong with that, its part of coping with this.

That is a big part of why I decided to treat, I got sick of dealing with having to tell potential sex partners about it, feeling like a leper, etc. because the general public is fearful and ignorant.

Thank you! Yes the hormones are making things a lot worse and i normally dont let things bother me because they r kids. But lately it just seems like he does stuff to irratate me and when i say anything to him he looks at me like he has no clue what i am saying or he has a smart remark back. His father works a lot if hours and i hate to bother him about stupid crap but lately it just seems like by the time he gets home i wanna pull my hair out. Im in no way saying my kids are perfect.

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