Hello!
I'm usually a very responsible person but, I tossed off my boyfriend for the first time, the first time I'd ever done it, and it went on his hands and well as mine, I cleaned mine for about a minute and a half with soap and cold water and dried them whereas he just quickly rinsed his with water. He then went up to the loo, but I'm not sure whether he washed his hands with soap, but I heard the tap go. Later probs about 15-20 mins later, I'm not sure, he fingered me.