t know if you are just down the hall and you can hear him, or if he has to come to
you, but either way, whether
you are asleep or not does not matter
as long
as he has access to you.
Use basic reinforcement in efforts to bring about change. He is 12 years old, there must be a ton of things he wants ranging from video games, to ipods, to taking karate lessons, whatever it may be......Come up with an arrangement, that when it's time to go to bed he goes up and stays there.