Hopefully your wife will have acute HBV, clear it, and then
be vaccinated so that you both
can live at peace. The vaccination is good for a long time.
Hang in there and hopefully you will find that although it is a hassle or a burden to bear, you will find that more often than not, you feel fairly normal and as long as you manage your diet, exercise and abstain from any drug/alcohol use, you can continue living a healthy life as others.