Im in the same boat as u.. Split from my ex 2 and half months ago and have been tryin so hard to move on! It is hard but has to be done... Im not sure why ye ended it but in my situation it was because he cheated and treated me bad, so I had to end it really!
What Iv done to help is, joined a gaelic football team, taken up more exercise, burned all our pics together (that was just out of spite really lol) and just spend more time with friends.. Head out more and have weekend away!
I don't know anything about your gf, but I know when I went through major surgery I pushed a lot of people away. My thought process on it was that I didn't want to cause them pain to have to see and deal with me when I had to go through with it all. Which is pretty stupid, but that was the idea I had. Maybe she could be in that mind frame, so giving her some time can help. After the ordeal is over things can go back to how it was before.
So i posted a little while ago, about having a boyfriend who talks down to me constantly. Well I finaly got up the courage and broke up with him. I tried to act like an adult, and not put the blame on him for anything in particular. I just told him I wasnt happy, and i think its because we dont see things the same way anymore. He yelled a bunch and told me he never wanted to hear from me again. Which I suppose is for the best. I just need some advice on moving on, some inpsirational words.
I am 29 yrs old and since I was about 15yrs old, I wake up during a nap or in the middle of the night not being able to move, I can only move my eyes, I can see whats going on around me but I can't move a muscle, not even my head only my eyes. Too make it stop its like I have to break free from myself, its really weird and it scares me really bad.
i know i have a very low risk exposure and you probably ignored this post, but i hope you can spare a couple of minutes to go through my situation before asking me to forget about tis incident as i really want to move on...i appreciate every of your words...so i beg you to answers ALL the questions above...i feel really sorrryyy sorryyy for that...
How do you keep your head up, paint on that smiley face, move on etc???? I'm not sure anymore. After my m/c i though i was then after finding out my sil was pg i was working on it but now..... I find out everyone is constantly talking about us i cant stand it!!!!!!!!!!!! Checking in w each other to see how we are doing? thats a big mystery for the love of god just leave us alone why can't everyone just leave it its hard enough as it is i don't need everyone talking about me to.
He would do some really sweet things.. And I guess a part of me still wants to go on believing in posibitlities, I used to love the idea we were highschool sweet hearts. Not I think hes narrowminded, mentally abusive (could be really controlling) and ignorant. So why the hell am I waiting for his rescue?! I mean I have had some power for myself. I told him I dont want to communicate and I could call him at any second and know we could just as easily go back into a relationship.
so much and I truly felt like there was no light at the end of the tunnel. However, as time went on I started to meet new people and do things that I wanted to do but never could and slowly but surely I started to heal. Believe it or not, my ex hubby and I are the best of friends and I could not ever go BACK to him. There was a time when I could've but I didn't want to.
At this time I am mourning another relationship that went bad and my ex hubby is one of my biggest supporters.
Hi, i found out i was pregnant this Tuesday and im 5weeks pregnant. Now that i know i am, i'm scared and worried of every move i make. Its worrying and frustrating to not know how far i should go by moving around and picking stuff from the floor.
Any suggestions?
With my mind out of control, not sleeping I stood up to him and then got the truth that he was pushing me away and that he found himself and that things got too serious and amidst all my crazy thoughts he was trying to not hurt me and wanting me to break up with him. Talk about a mental hell hole I fell into and I am trying daily to fight my way out of these thoughts and its a daily struggle.
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