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1381451 tn?1288095766 My question to you is why do you have this trust issue? Is it with all women or just her? Are you insecure and thus try to control your girlfriend and her actions? This is something to work on within yourself because if it is not addressed from within, it will keep resurfacing in new relationships. I don't know if you two will work it out or not but I think I'd do some soul searching as to what exactly went wrong.
Avatar m tn i still love her dearly and we are still in communication fairly frequently and know she is not into anyone else or anything like that.
376148 tn?1309899577 Men take things literally...he may very well have not WANTED to leave. Suck it up and call him or go see him. Tell him how sorry you are, that you never really MEANT for him to leave it was just said in the heat of the argument. Then see where it goes from there.
Avatar m tn sorry to hear about what happened.writing can be therapeutic especially if someone listens.feel free to message me bro.i am no pro but i can listen.willing to be a friend if you are.
6548496 tn?1384490023 how do you deal with a break up with your boyfriend? Me and my boyfriend just broke up because he cheated on me once again i need some advice somebody help~~~!!!!!!!!!
Avatar f tn Then I would book a trip with my girlfriends and go on vacation. I would also call up some old friends and go to dinner or go out. I made sure I kept myself distracted all the time. At some point you find yourself in a much better place. Seven years is a long time and it will take some time to grieve the loss of this relationship, but don't fret, it will happen. Just give yourself some time, one month is not really that long. Good luck.
8924846 tn?1410572901 Im not with the father off my child either we split up not so long ago and personally I am better off from doing so his family had different lifestyle than I was used too and he didn'tprovide at all iI felt I was completely on my own but I'm glad to say I'm settled down and I'm actually happy I'm due my baby in 2 weeks and I'm going to be a one parent family with my son but that's no harm my child will have everything he needs ...
Avatar f tn I told my boyfriend if his parnts kick him out I'm breakinq up wit him cuz I'm not gana deal with his **** and I need a place for my daughter (32 weekss). He said I was stupid if I broke up with him if his parents kick him out..there the only ones that help us and he dosnt care if they make him leave. Am I stupid for sayinq ill leave him for that?
1710121 tn?1326476935 I agree with Clysta, give it some time before you make any final decisions. We're all here for you, to vent with, cry with, laugh, share your concerns, etc...there is also an anxiety forum here, which I wanted to mention because they may be able to help you find a way to control it without seeing a dr. BUT I urge you to talk to one just because post partum depression is serious, and you should discuss your anxiety with a dr before giving birth.
Avatar f tn So i posted a little while ago, about having a boyfriend who talks down to me constantly. Well I finaly got up the courage and broke up with him. I tried to act like an adult, and not put the blame on him for anything in particular. I just told him I wasnt happy, and i think its because we dont see things the same way anymore. He yelled a bunch and told me he never wanted to hear from me again. Which I suppose is for the best. I just need some advice on moving on, some inpsirational words.
Avatar f tn You bet. Get busy. Go out with your girlfriends. Join a hiking or biking or tennis club. Get physically active and fill up your time with things that can make you happy. Do things that are different from the things you did with him. Make some new friends from a different group of people. Change your life in a positive direction and don't give yourself much time alone- even much time to think!!
Avatar m tn I have tried a few times not to talk to her and each time i end up failing and messaging her. BUt everytime I do i just end up crying and in more pain. So you are right I do need to just leave her be. Thank you.
Avatar f tn Hi there. Your post is a little bit confusing=== not sure what you mean by you never broke up. I personally feel like if your heart has left enough that you are very interested in a new guy, then you owe it to the old one to break it off with him. I also do want to caution you in overlapping relationships. Going from one guy to the next can become a detrimental pattern in that it doesn't give one time to sort out what went wrong and what you want to be different next time.
1285214 tn?1274877443 Constant snooping, sniffing for any evidence against me, every bit of stuff in the house is looked into with suspicion whether it belongs to the other woman or not. Making up imaginary stories in the mind and starts believing them and interrogating me on them. It seems so damn suffocating.....
Avatar n tn I was out last week and slept with a pro, it was rough sex, she put condom on at start and i finished in condom, it didnt break or at least i didnt notice, would you notice if it broke? and can hiv get into the condom even if it doesnt break? I have no idea what make condom it was.
Avatar f tn Being attracted to other people is not something to break up over. Have you never looked at another guy while in a relationship? The point is that he's not acting on these things. I know one thing that helps my husband I is talking about our fantisies or attractions. The hubs has a weird thing for redheads so once in a while I'll buy a box of washout hair dye to surprise him. The point is give him some slack he's normal, it doesn't mean he's cheating or will cheat.
Avatar n tn I work full time and I'm on my feet for about 14 hrs 3days/week and I asked my job to start doing part time they said no, they want me full time. I feel like it's too much for me because I'm also a full time student and I've been so tired since pregnancy and I feel like I'm drowning. Should I just quit my job and look for another job? I'm just scared someone else won't hire me because I'll be showing and they might not want a pregnant woman.
Avatar f tn It speaks of either not being mature enough to enter into a relationship, or not feeling like you are in a compatible with your partner. If there is this much fighting prior to living with one another, then i would imagine that the fighting would get worse as life became more complicated, possibly with children to raise.
Avatar f tn Okay so im going through a break up now i feel really depressed and its so hard for me to eat food, i feel as though I'm getting Skinnier. Is there a drink that will fill me up and get my baby nutrients?
Avatar f tn Avoiding the pain or basically sweeping it under the rug does not make it go away. You need to acknowledge it and deal with it. Your addiction will only get worse. You can do it if you really want to but only you can do the work. Losing a bf is NOT the end of the world. You had a life before them and you will have a life after them. But doing drugs to numb the pain is not the answer. you need to talk to someone about how youre feeling. Trust me this is not the way to do it.
Avatar n tn I would go to your dr you may have a yeast infection. I have not had any vag itching with any of my children or this pg. When is your period due? I wish you the best. Good luck let me know what happens.
Avatar m tn Once the hymen is ruptured, it will always remain that way.
Avatar n tn Initial outbreak or not? Last fall I was surprised by a herpes select hsv2 2.75 after a bad break up- learning my "faithful" partner was not faithful. I thought I had no symptoms or outbreaks. Have been racking my brain on this trying to remember anything out of the ordinary. Early November 2009 after being with my ex for 3 months of unprotected sex we had rough long dry sex one morning. I had cough, cold and maybe flu like symptoms at the time- not bad.
Avatar n tn Good luck, you might get together with the first guy again or might not, but try not to let your next beau be chosen simply because he seems enamored of you. There are better reasons to pick a partner.
Avatar n tn the fact that condom could break, or while it was rolled back mine and her fluids could exchange. What would use say about used condoms risk. In your posts, you always state that if condoms were used properly, there is no risk. Was mine situation risky? I also took the test be fore my encounter, and never had unprotected sex. Thanks for honest answers.