re not going to be a part of our lives talk? If not, you need to, instead of just shutting her
out, which would be the easier thing to do, you should at least try to reconcile things, for your husband, yours and your childrens sake. I know I would hate for my husband to not be involved with his mother, so if you do that and she doesn't listen, then yes, you tell her I'm not comfortable having you there with the way you treat me. Good luck!