Hi, answered your post about your daughter and figured I should do the same for you.
My first thought is that you certainly have some of the symptoms
or ADD. And, of course, if you have it (or your husband) - it dramatically increases the chances that your daughter could also have it. You are probably fairly intelligent or it would have/should have been picked up in school. Although girls, especially girls with ADD, don't get noticed as easily as all of those bouncy boys.