I have seen cases where the child with ADHD
is trying so hard to hold it together at
school, that when they get home
they fall apart. That could be part of what is going on here.
I know for sure that exercise, a lot of movement, after school will help.
But I really need to know a bit more to be more specific.
How old is she, and what grade is she in? Are there certain times at home when she is the worse?