I'm married (23 years) and have kids, one with ADHD and one with ADD.
I lived at home
with my mom until I was 29 (except when I was at
school), was forgetful, disorganized, etc....and in some ways I still am. I also didn't have many close friends although I do now. I wasn't diagnosed (although I am dyslexic) until I was in my 40's. I take adderall daily and, for me, it has made things a lot better.
My son, 22 ADHD, is a college grad.