IF this is an experienced preschool, they see lots of kids. There is something about your kids
that makes them suspect that they might have ADHD
. It is important to know if this is true or not. The way you help ADHD kids is different then the way you help other kids. You need to find out what is going on.
And yes, you do need some direction the kids will not get better on there own. Get the book, "SOS Help for Parents," by Lynn Clark .