//www.ashastd.org/herpes/herpes_comm_support.cfm otherwise most
groups are more social it seems. check out
yahoo groups to see if a social group is near you. often they meet for coffee/dinner/activities monthly or so and you can go and talk to others though when they are more social in nature, you might not be able to find someone who has accurate information for you though of course you can get an idea of what life has been like for them with herpes.