I'm confused because you said you had an equivocal result on
the HSV 2, but your antibody tests are negative. Equivocal is a result on
an antibody test, can you clarify?
My advice would be to wait and see what the result of your partner's testing is before you do much more here. If she is your only recent partner, and her tests are negative, then you can stop worrying completely, right?
Leg weakness is not a sign of herpes, either.