Whining and complaining kids

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I took my kids to counseling over this and the counselor said to shut the door so I did and the stress went away. eventually they started to clean their messes Life is too short to get upset at your kids for this.You know they are pretty typical for kids this age. It will turn around . they will move out and then you will wish they were back in their rooms making messes again.
You or her dad don't have to get mad, just tell her that you don't want her to be tired the next day as not getting enough sleep makes us all grumpy and that's that. My husband can't get my kids to go to bed and he is an active dad and with them a lot. But his style is one that just doesn't always get the results that I get. I'm not a super strict mom, I just am the boss.
Meal times with mommy require constant hugging of mommy and getting out of the chairs and the meals last forever. Bedtime with mommy also is filled with whining and crying and delaying it takes forever to put the kids down. With daddy (when mommy isnt around), there are some attempts to prolong things, but for the most part, drama and tear free. I think I see the root of this.....my wife - she gives too many chances and is too soft.
I am laughing so hard I am almost crying right now, because do you know how many times I have FLIPPED OUT on DH cause he decided to cook and dinner wasn't done when I thought it should be... crying and whining OMG!! And I totally feel ya on having to pee... I was just whining to DH about all of these discomforts last night... not to mention all the Dr. appts and the PAP and the cervical checks and the morning (ALL DAY) sickness...
You gonna make me whine - it's early and I shouldn't be whining 1st thing in the a.m. What would we be if we didn't have such a garden variety of ailments? We'd be all washed up, discussing and beating up the same things over, and over, and over....What would we be w/out our unique and sometimes similiar problems? We'd be cookie cutters or something! Yuck! Where is the creativity in that??? It really IS what makes us so diverse! No 2 people with this disease, are the same.
If you are hovering about him, stop it. If he is whining and complaining from anther room, close the door. Worse on shot nights for you? Ditch the guy and go to a movie with your friends. Let him stew in his own misery If you see yourself as his caregiver drop a bottle of water nearby him every once in a while, but don't wait around for either appreciation or abuse. As long as he's taking the meds and still breathing, let him be. There is really little you can do.
i instantly fell in love with this beautiful baby. then, one day amanda walks away with the baby and i never see him again. i had 3 kids of my own to raise and times were hard. but she never ever tried to contact me. i heard rumors here and there....that she was married, divorced, remarried blah blah blah. i didnt need the drama that amanda would bring to my life. but i certainly would have seen my grandson tyler. wondered about him so many times over the years. got my heart pure broken.
Hi, I have been on Effexor XR for 3 years and I have gained about 40-50pounds, most when my dose was increased to 225, now I am on 75mg b/c I'm getting ready to wean off the medicine in a couple of weeks,and I haven't lost anything yet. My eating habits have not changed and I exercise. I have always been underweight and I could eat whatever I wanted...I'm only 26 years old...I know my metabolism has changed some, but not enough to pack on 40 pounds.
Went to the Doctor this morning, had liver checked, don't know the results yet, should know them sometime tomorrow (hopefully). After that i went and visited with my dad, and oh boy, i get there and he puts me to work outside, We are having a HUGE party there Saturday from 4:00 and it usually goes on until midnight or later. My parents do this every year, and they have over 200 people coming. We have so much fun! We have it catered, and have a live band the whole nine yards.
He is a good kid and loves school and get wonderful grades. It does make me sad that the kids in school are so crule and tease and mock him and he does not know how to come back at them so he just lets it happen. He has issues with his clothing and will not wear jeans as he says they don't feel good on. He likes to wear dress pants and shirts to school, which is ok with me but there again the kids say stuff since they like to look messy.
I put him in the office chair from the computer room, since its higher and has wheels. He can sit down and get up more easily, and I can push him around the house in it when needed. The couch is too low and soft for him to sit on. He did manage to walk a bit, though. His BP is fine, so I don't know what the heck the passing out is from, except from pain. He's not a passing out kind of person after any of his injuries, except the concussion a couple months ago.
Of course those who oppose tolorance, diversity, and true freedom of speech will groan, moan, and most likely run off whining to try an suppress the exercising of these rights by others simply because they are not in agreement and are unable to simply agree to disagree.
It is getting to the point that it is embarassing to bring her out in public because she is whining and complaining about something and doesn't make an effort to get along with the other kids. HELP!!
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Over the last 7 or 8 weeks, all I have been doing is whining and pining on about my seperation with Dermot ...... and it stops here it has to all end here, once and for all, because I have been so selfish lately, when all I seem to do is moan and be selfish talking about what if, and oh my God this is so not fair, and so on!!! I have two georgious little children and if they can get on with it, why on earth can't I?
I really couldn’t do this without you all. Thank you to taking all my complaining and whining.
and here is this grown man...whining and raging to everyone and he at least has a LIFE....not all of the kids I see at the peds unit don't necessarily HAVE that option of a life...." And that's when I posted what I did to Danny. I guess my anger got the best of me, and I apologize to you, Danny, for that. But I meant what I said about the kids.....they are braver and more positive then anyone I know!
for about 19 years now. My kids swear it happens when I eat eggs as I had them on Easter a few years back and it continues to be an episode they will never forget as they were stuck in the car with me for two hours. I don't believe it to be caused by any particular food that I eat but I do know if I go to bed too soon after eating a very gassy type food such as eggs, cabbage, beans etc. that I wind up with "The Burps" in the morning.
) Heal up and get back in the saddle :) Sadd.....discussing and whining are 2 entirely different things.
Laura, I receive it, and thank you. I take b vitamins, quite a bit actually. I am thinking of increasing the magnesium to see if that will help. I also try to eat healthy, don't smoke or drink alcohol. I will check on the cycle thing for sure. I also take a gaba and l theanine support. supposed to help with calmness. i sure wish I could go to a naturopath. MK, good to hear from you. okay, we are hanging in there.
I thought her attitude would change today when everything went the way it should she had a good day @ school made student of the month but no we are back home and we are back at square one with the whining and constant complaining. Thanks in advance for any replies and sorry to be so far off topic.
One night, I packed the kids and left in the middle of the night. Saved money and stood in shelters until i got my own place, started going to the gym and got a new and better job.. and little by little started a new life. Never went back and stood my ground, five years later, I am married to this great guy who wants the same things as I do. But one thing I do know for sure, I had to take the first step, by myself and on my own...
I don't think his mother spends much time with him. He isn't married and has no other kids. She didn't even want to have kids. She got preg. young. My husband and I have an 11 month old together and another on the way, due Jan 08. I know he starving for his fathers attention but this weekend thing isn't something new. It's so bad that he won't even ask me to get him breakfast in morning when he gets dropped off if his father is sleeping. I'll ask him and he'll say he isn't hungry.
If he absolutely HAD to, he'd agonizingly follow directions to sit still in a chair and do schoolwork, because he knew what was expected of him and how to behave, albeit that would come with much whining and complaining, which of course led to lack of focus. When he WANTED to do it, great--and he'd do phenominally. But even though he *could* academically handle the work, the fact is that most of the time he didn't have the focus to *want* to do it.
I'll tell you a quick story about my recent Florida vacation...took the kids to Disney and was very relaxed, even having the kids around. Well, my first days of the trip, I had almost zero PVCs for three days. Then, WHAM I was getting THOUSANDS for three or four days STRAIGHT with no let up...I mean...it was so weird...I wasn't eating/drinking bad stuff and I was having fun the whole time...I was really pulling my hair out.
I know how sick I'm going to be so I asked him if he could just ONCE take her and he started whining and complaining and basically told me to forget it. I am so pissed at him right now. How selfish can a person be??? I really have doubts about our future together if this is the kind of non support I can look forward to. It seems he's very happy I have decided to get my life together - as long as it doesn't inconvenience him. Well I'm rambling.
Then, today I actually feel human again. The kids and I are going shopping for Halloween costumes. Hubby at work. He's been rescheduling a lot of surgeries lately. I had Adriamycin and Cytoxin. Will have again on the 15th. Every 2 weeks for 3 more weeks, then 4 weeks of taxol. Next time, I will just premedicate myself into oblivion for the first 24 hours after chemo, using valium and ativan. I've been living on campbells chicken and stars soup.
My grandmother did all the testing and stuff on all of my moms kids. He's just an attention seeking drama king. But I thought it was bizarre too. 30 years old and throwing a tantrum that could put my 2 year old to shame.
Kills me walking around isn't as bad until I stop or if I walked alot the day before I can't it literally feels like my leg is going to be ripped right outta socket it makes a clicking sound when I lift my leg and put it back down sometimes I will get a week here and there where its not debilitating but I think it just makes it worse having to get reaccustomed to what not to do to make it worse i forgot to mention I live in fl so any mention of pain has Dr's assuming that I'm just interested in
He has been suffering on and off with chest pains over the last couple of years and every time I took him to our Doctor they always say the same thing, that they are only muscular pains and maybe some growing pains as well, which I thought all right, but still wanted to go further about it. This Wednesday night just gone, his chest pains were so severe that he could barely take in a deep breath, his breathing was very shallow, he is also mildly asthmatic, so I didn't know what to think.
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