long has this been going on??? Did it start with new meds? At nine,he should know how to
use the bathroom and wipe his behind. Maybe this kid is controlling the only thing he gets to
control and getting lots of attention from you. Leave the kid alone. Feed him fruits and veggis with some fiber and get him to
drink lots of water. He'll go eventually. Let him know that you expect him to
clean himself and bathes every day.