Get evaluated by a pelvic floor PT who may be able to help with myofascial release on the puborectalis, iliococcygeus and obturators. Alternatively, vesicare
or Enablex, may be helpful, but put you at risk for retention, constipation, and dry mouth as well. Being noninvasive, it may be worth a try. Other alternatives inlude liberty ESTIM, which is a removable vaginal insert pacemaker which can cure up to 50% of women with urge incontinence who use it twice daily for 8 weeks.