Second degree tears are deeper into the tissues, require a few stitches, and then heal well afterward. Third degree
tears involve the rectal muscles, and fourth degree
tears enter into the rectum. These tears require more time and stitches to repair. I would suggest making an appt if u are indeed in that much pain. For relief now u can use ibuprofen. Doctors usually recommend ibuprofen for any pain following stitches. Sitting in a warm bath that only covers hips and buttocks can sometimes help.