My wife had many of the same symptoms
you have mentioned. numbness, tingling, arms sore when touched, achyness, and it seemed to intensify when her period started. She went to gyn, and he diagnosed her with "perimenopause. she began hormone treatment and has lost almost all trace of the symptoms
that 2 nerologists, 2 back specialists, a gen. pract., a bone scan, a mri of the brain and back, and also a bone density scan. All had failed to produce anything other than bills to our med.