You mention that sub is destroying your relationship - tapering to the lower dose will lessen any side effects
, so if it is problems with that that are hurting your relationship, that should improve. Drop down to 4mg without a problem, then take it 1mg or less at a time until you are only at .5mg per day before jumping off completely. Listen to Ga Guy, talk to your doctor and work on a taper, cold turkey will be miserable. Keep posting on your progress and don't hesitate to ask for support.