Hi sorry to hear ur feeling bad at moment, be strong with it hubby, tell him straight that u are going to do role reversal, he will have to do everything
for his in laws if he wishes
for them to come over when u may not be feeling upto running around after others, I have done similar with mine, and at first they are ok with it then after a few days it wears thin but then they have to just suck it in and get on with it just like we would!