you could just be worried about what
your friends said and that though will be in the back
of your mind for a while, but try to look to a more positive side. I worried a lot about losing my baby in the beginning but I would sit there and talk to the baby and tell the baby things I want to buy for her and draw and write her notes and save them (that's what got me through the first trimester). This is my first baby and I am now 37 weeks along.