Yeah, actually, many folks gall bladderless have bowel
eating. I know for sure, that eating a lot of fat during a meal, will cause instant need to go to the bathroom, for some folks. You aren't alone, by a shot, and I've discovered that my surgeon seemed to act like no one has any problems after their gall bladder is removed.
Try going to a gastroenerologist (GI) about that, and don't be embarrassed.