we lived within a few hundred yards of my older kids before, but now its a half hour journey and i miss them terribly, as we all saw each other daily for coffee etc,also my hubbys family are useless, cannot even turn up for a visit,my children from my first marriage have done so much for him, my daughter will come and sit with him, cut his hair, even pedicures,she has a 3 month baby and 3 year old,I have also noticed that he does not keep track of things he watches on the tv,if i leave the room