s one thing to have a drink or two, but to drink to total intoxication, it never
leads to anything good. It
leads to hangovers, poor behavior, fights,
anxiety,
depression, promiscuity and unsafe sex (which can lead to a lot of other bad things), DUIs, accidents, injuries, etc etc.
You've recieved excellent advice above. When you go out with your friends, drink whatever you want, soda, coffee, whatever.