He relapsed and was using when we began dating, but there was no sexual contact. He went to
rehab a year after his previous
rehab stay, and again, tested negative. He admitted that he relapsed again after this second stay but after two weeks stopped for good (and I could tell the difference, he truly did stop). However, he never shared needles (from what he told me, and he confided in me a lot during his struggles) and I could tell he was being honest.