im sorry your family has health issues. if you look at the research you will see what smoking can do to an unborn baby
. that is what we are discussing, not necessarily the after its born and grown, but in the womb. that baby gets all the chemicals that are stuffed into one cig. after they are born they go through withdrawls. its a preventative measure to quit while pg. its like playing russian roullette. sure you can chance it and maybe you will win. but maybe you wont.