Psychotic jealousy relationships
Common Questions and Answers about Psychotic jealousy relationships
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My jealousy and anxiety levels go nuts. I feel as if she will leave me eventually for someone who is better looking/ more to offer (someone with higher education as herself). She tells me all the time that she loves me deeply, she wanted me to move with her to her training facility states away (which i did).
its always nice wen u have a problem to share it with others who r in the same boat or ask peoples advice without having to go down the road of a counseller especially if moneys abit tight.. I have had violent relationships in the past then met my perfect man.. we got engaged then married in june.. I always get jealous or paranoid wen we out and about thinking hes looking at other woman cos he wants something better than me..
Healthy relationships are most certainly not built on obsession. Those are the kinds of relationships that end up with someone in the hospital or arrested or dead because of jealousy.
You have a normal relationship now with a normal guy who has normal feelings for you. Unfortunately you're the type who is addicted to drama and it's making you shun a normal relationship that doesn't include the same level of drama that your jealous and obsessed ex exhibited.
It sounds as if both you and your hubby/boyfriend need to do some growing up. Well A lot of growing up. First off it is very immature of you to get upset at him for still going to his stag party, even if you decided not to go to the cenima, thats your issue not his, just because you didnt want to go out, why spoil his fun?
Second, It was highly irresponsible of you to make the decision on drinking while pregnant, just because your man went out and had a good time.
Jealousy is a natural emotion. We all have it from time to time. It is a problem if it becomes the dominating theme in your relationship or you start to do out of control things because of it.
I think I understand why you are jealous. He liked your friend but you had a crush on him and now he and you are together . . . you worry about that original crush on your friend. How does she feel about him? This is your friend too, right?
Yeah, I have a form of bipolar which includes bigtime paranoia, and this could easily turn into jealousy because I am always expecting something to go wrong in some way. Like g_sev I cannot trust my gut feelings and it makes me so frustrated that I cannot 'tell' for sure what is going on behind the scenes. I try and rationalise, but I have no proof either way so I am left with suspicions which bug me and eat away at my relationships.
Yep, I agree with aylinn829, sounds like jealousy. I'd probably ask her why she thinks that next time it comes up and just laugh no matter what she says because no one really knows what goes on in other peoples relationships.
Here's an update for ya
I went to some meetings, talked to my sponsor, and now I see through my sick way of thinking. I'm an addict and am clean they're not clean so I wanted to get into that way of placing blame and stuff on them when I should have been looking at myself. I realize they do care about me, might not be that supportive but they care. I was most likely upset because my addiction wanted a reason to use but I never have to pick up again.
She did nothing but be a psycho and put strain on an already strained situation since day one.. I got free of the son but the lovely psychotic mil is still in my life almost on a daily basis, sometimes I'll have enough and won't speak to her for a couple of months, but once you have a kid they are in your life for the long haul unfortunately..
But for those who have bipolar (like me) how are you able to have relationships. Me I have never been in one or in love, Just lust when those manic days hit and this cause me to try for a relationship for all the wrong reasons. So how are you able to do it.
ve both got a good chance. If you visit, try very hard not to show any sign of jealousy because that could drive a wedge between you both.
As Vicki said, this is your time now. Time to focus on your own mental and emotional health and well-being.
I could have a pick of many easy relationships but I always chose the ones that were more intense and in doing so I created a dysfunctional pattern of breaking hearts and having mine broken. A relationship should be give and take and if you are not getting out of it what you are putting into it then you need to re-evaluate the foundation that this relationship was built on.
Ask yourself unbiased questions and be honest with yourself. Where do you see this relationship going?
When you see this attitude of jealousy and competition and a feeling of competing with the child for the boyfriend's attention, it's a step mother doing that not a mother.
Didn't mean to offend those step parents who are able to rise above petty jealousy of children.
Girl, I am nauseous and 6 weeks pregnant and I am SO jealous of people who have passed this awful stage. When you have your baby, your jealousy will subside, don't be hard on yourself and be patient!
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