we sat down and had a talk about what we want to do with our lives, and He mentioned wanting to have
kids as soon as he gets a better, higher paying job. However- we are not married, obviously, and I'm still in school (couple years left). I'm not against having children before marriage if you are engaged and want a child because of age issues (risk of birth defects after 35-40) and he is 3 years older than me and just wants to get established.