So, I basically approached my Aunt first who said
Beyonce would be a great catch for me or my cousin but
Beyonce actually approached my Aunt (they grew fairly close) and my Aunt got the hint that Beyonce actually felt she had more in common with me and that my cousin was just "using" Beyonce for, well, you know. So, my Aunt said I should ask her to hang out but not before asking my cousin so I did. He basically said, "She's not mine. Do what you want.