I have a similar prob as well. My right eyelid gets itchy
at night (weird), right in the area of my lashes. I scratch and by morning its huge and red, sometimes painful. My left eye is very different. It is not as sensitive. Gets itchy
higher, not as much or as often and never swells. After the "itch, scratch and swelling episode" the swelling goes away and I am left with VERY dry skin. I apply lotions at night and after a day or two, I am left with wrinkles!