I have had some anxiety issues for years and used to take things like
paxil, prozac, zoloft etc, but stopped because of sexual
side effects, they really do numb you out. Orgasms were impossible and sex you could take or leave, I know what he is feeling, but there is an anti anxiety med called buspar that is not supposed to have the same sexual side effects. xanax isn't somehting he should be on all the time, it is a short acting quick fix.