thanx :) slowly i think the two could be connected, the not concieving and my short period, your period sounds even more "normal" then mine, but what is normal anyways? my period starts, is VERY light the first day, gets a little heavier (but still light) the second, gets light the third again, and is either gone by day 4 or it turned into spotting and i only realize that by wiping, anyways...