maybe he is depressed over sharing mom with twins, depression can cause obesity and anger
we use a behavior chart for my kids, it doesnt take that long, i use a sheet of paper, i do not have time to make an elaborate nanny 911 chart each week, every night i get in the bed with my youngest while my oldest is in the bath, we go over their behavior
chart, we ususally have 5 questions on the
chart, for example, were you nice to your brother?, how was your behavior?, did you feel loved today?