Sometimes this happens 4-5 times, and
usually by then both of us are completely frustrated. I have no problem masturbating, and
when I blacked out on whiskey my g/f said I was erect even after sex until the next morning. If I've taken a vikodin or xanax, this problem is not as prevelant, which leads me to believe that this is mental, not physical. I know I am heterosexual so that is not the issue. I smoke regularly, and drink occasionally. My g/f is completely frustrated, as am I.