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I'm so sorry to hear you've been suffering for so long. So, did the Neurologist give you confirmation that your symptoms are related to the Valium? Or, was it just a theory? Does he think the abrupt d/c of the med and the serious w/ds caused rthe symptoms, or just the med itself?
These kinds of situations are so very difficult, because the facts are, it's rare that a person would have such long term effects from a medication, or from a med w/d.