I am so sorry to hear of your loss, I too can relate to what you are going thru, from both sides. The shot vs
surgery. In 2000 I had to have my tube removed because of the ectopic
, and the tube was already severly damaged. It took me 6-8 weeks post opt to get back on track, work wise, emotionally, physically.
6 years later, I am going thru the process of Methotrexate, and honestly girl, don't let my story sway you into a decision, I may be a rare case in regards to the shot.