miscarriage jealousy

When you go through a loss it definitely affects you in many different ways, including undesireable feelings like jealousy. I had awful moments over the last two years where I wanted to be pregnant so badly and felt so much like it would never happen for me everytime I heard about or saw family members and neighbours getting pregnant and having babies. Just be good to yourself right now -- it will happen.

I had a miscarriage 7yrs ago and for a long time I avoided getting close to anyones kids or anyone that was preggo cuz it just hurt so much I still think of that baby almost every day so IF she has had miscarriages or been trying only to be met with disappointment every month jut give some space for now and when it gets closer to baby being here ask if shed be willing to talk to see what the problem is that doesn't meam dont be ecstatic about ur lil one but just dont force happiness on her q

I told my twin sister me and my partner were trying for a baby, and next thing she was. She fell pregnangt first, which was frustrating but I was happy for her. Then I fell pregnant, we were 9 days apart in due dates. At our 12week ultrasound her bub was absolutely gorgeoud, I was at her ultrasound because her bf couldn't make it. The 4 days later at mine we learned I'd had a missed miscarriage and bub hadn't made it past 8weeks. That was really hard.

I was pregnant with my daughter when my sister found our she was pregnant not to far along behind me but then she had a miscarriage my mother told me before hand so I knew to give my sister distance to let her heal a couple days later she called me and told me. She then went on to say that not being around me at the moment just was best for her she then came and see me and was better. Some people heal differently. Couple months later she ended up getting pregnant again. Had her baby girl.

At 13 weeks i lost my baby! I had the worst miscarriage, it was so bad that in the hospital i had to go in to resusitation. At that point i just wanted to die to be with my baby. My husband and family were my strongest support! Let me tell you that i got so depressed that i was so mad at myself, at the world everyone! I started going to church and mass it was very hard because the whole mass i would only cry cry asking god why??

When you see this attitude of jealousy and competition and a feeling of competing with the child for the boyfriend's attention, it's a step mother doing that not a mother. Didn't mean to offend those step parents who are able to rise above petty jealousy of children.

Yep, you're not alone. I'm not really in the jealousy part, but the whole nothing fitting and feeling a bit down about how unattractive I feel now. He says im pretty, but there's days in just have to play along and pretend I believe him when he says it.

Girl, I am nauseous and 6 weeks pregnant and I am SO jealous of people who have passed this awful stage. When you have your baby, your jealousy will subside, don't be hard on yourself and be patient!

Hey ladies...have you guys experience more jealousy while pregnant? I'm just beyond that..I have always have jealousy issues but I'm having major ones with my 2nd pregnancy!!!

So I'm 5 months pregnant and my boyfriend's cousin is also pregnant from her second child... she's 8 months pregnant, since everyone has their attention on me because it's my boyfriend's first child, she stopped talking to me automatically, could it be jealousy or she just doesn't like me anymore because we use to be cool... i mean it's not my fault everyone has their attention on me...

I agree with Sarah. It may not be a rational jealousy but as long as it upsets him it's still going to do damage to your relationship. My husband and I went through this for years. We finally just both stopped and we're happier than we have been in years.

The first time my dad did this I had jealousy issues with my first love and we made it through that, now that I'm with someone new (we've been together for about 7 months or more) but he doesn't really know my past and it's difficult to explain how I feel and I don't want to scare him off so I don't mention it. But I know some thing has to be done because the thoughts I get just aren't healthy.

This is very normal and I believe we had a post in a few days ago asking the same thing, it is a bit of jealousy I think even if he had been the bio Dad you would get the same response, let him see this often do not stop, it is good for children to see love ,let him join in as you say ....a threesome cuddle each time so he knows he is part of you both ...good luck he sounds like a lot of fun, make sure his 'now Daddy' plays games and has fun with him....

Jealousy is a natural emotion. We all have it from time to time. It is a problem if it becomes the dominating theme in your relationship or you start to do out of control things because of it. I think I understand why you are jealous. He liked your friend but you had a crush on him and now he and you are together . . . you worry about that original crush on your friend. How does she feel about him? This is your friend too, right?

He is friends with them also but seems to want his best friends all to himself. Due to recent incidents I feel like his jealousy is getting a little out of control and I would love advice on how to help him through this. He is also at the age where he doesn't want to participate in anything. I am strict about limiting video games, computer games, and TV viewing but can't get him interested in anything else.

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