Miscarriage grief loss

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Avatar f tn I'm sorry for your loss. It's always sad when a person miscarries. Soon you can try again. GL.
915369 tn?1355314810 I'm sorry to hear about your girlfriend's miscarriage. Grief and depression can feel very similar, but also very different at the same time in my experience. It's raw and powerfully overwhelming, inescapable. Depression for me, at least, is numb and lifeless, a void of emotion rather an a devastating flood of emotion. Like the other posters said, it's very possible that what you're feeling right now is a natural grieving response to a major loss.
136689 tn?1419580447 I'm so sorry to hear that :( Take it easy, let your body heal and when you feel the time is right try again. I know it doesn't make the loss and grief any easier but the majority of women experience atleast one miscarriage in their reproductive lifetime. I have had 2 and a full term stillbirth (cord related) so I understand your loss, but I also have 4 beautiful healthy kids and I'm 8 weeks pregnant.
Avatar f tn I had a miscarriage at 8 wks. Back in june 2013 my baby was suppose to be due last month and my sister in law was pregnant at the sametime with a baby due a month after mines meaning hers was born this month i cant help but to feel anger/sadness can really bare to see the baby or even her..i try to avoid them as much possible but i really just wanna get over this i know i cant stay like this forever..
2052746 tn?1330383218 You are not heartless for not feeling grief over your loss. Everyone deals with it in their own way. My husband just said it will be OK. And that was it. Then about a year later a friend of his at work had asked him to borrow 700$ to pay for his wife's d&c. He told me he was only going to lend him the money because he remembered how helpless he felt when we had "our" miscarriage. I wanted to cry because there I was thinking he didn't care and he did.
Avatar f tn I don't think you ever truely get past a loss, especially that of a little one. I think you just have to find it in yourself to move on. The pain will always be there you just have to learn to live with it.
Avatar f tn We also have a miscarriage forum here where you can share your loss and grief with other women who understand. I'm posting a link below. I hope you have a support network of family and friends to get you through this time. If you need to talk or just want to vent you can PM me anytime. Again I am very sorry you are having to go through this. Losing a child is the worst pain a mother can feel. With time it does get easier. I find little things help me to get by...
Avatar f tn I googled complicated grief and found information at the Mayo.com site. "For some people, feelings of loss are debilitating and don't improve even after time passes. This is known as complicated grief. In complicated grief, painful emotions are so long lasting and severe that you have trouble accepting the loss and resuming your own life.
1195411 tn?1277328333 There are professionals out there that focus on m/c and grief. You may find that to help. Grief is a terrible road to walk down and it can be quite bumpy. The road can start to feel like it goes on forever. Our bodies need time to heal it take 3 or more cycles for everything to regulate. Our general health may be the affected the most. It's very important to have a follow up app w your dr to ensure that your body is healing and that there are no signs of any complications.
Avatar f tn I do think that a grief and loss group may be of great help to you and you will help many others also. Call your local hospital and find out who to contact. The groups are made up of woman who have suffered losses also. I wish you the very best.
Avatar m tn How heartbreaking, so sorry for your loss. In the UK we have a miscarriage association website, I'm not sure if there's one for where you live but maybe it's something to look into. They help with loss and grief.
Avatar m tn One moinute im fine then the grief kicks in again and i still see her lying on the hospital bed lifeless.They say times a great healer i know its only been 6 weeks but i still cant get my head around it.If it wasnt for my two daughters i think i would have given up.Its just not fair my wife was only 45.
Avatar f tn I'm so sorry for your loss. It is such a difficult thing to go thru. I have been mourning for our little one since our miscarriage in May 2010. Things have finally gotten better. I went thru some depression and anger but I think I am finally thru the worst of it. It just takes time. You need to let yourself mourn and go thru the process. Looked to loved ones for support and find a why to grieve and remember the loss that lets you move on, as heatherNalan did.
1305767 tn?1361192676 ” Regardless of what anyone says, a miscarriage is a miscarriage. You do not have to justify your grief or compare it to anyone else’s grief for it to be valid. A chemical pregnancy was still a pregnancy, and for many women, it’s still a loss of a baby and grief that will always they will carry for their entire lives. It’s also OK to not be too sad about a very early miscarriage and to decide you just want to try again.
1634919 tn?1300154298 I am so sorry to hear of ur loss. A miscarriage is VERY hard on both parents & can truly test your strength. Be sure that she drinks lots of water as it will help with the bleeding & to use heat & Tylenol/Midol for any cramping. Even though she was early on you both no doubt bonded with the baby she was carrying & grow to love the idea of her being pregnant. Talk to each other as you need one another right now & that will help with your grief.
1419501 tn?1320206310 Coping with a pregnancy loss is what most people would say the worst time of their life.After a miscarriage or stillbirth, your grief may be so overwhelming that you wonder if you will ever be happy again. You may never truly “get over” your loss, but know that your grief will become more manageable over time especially if you recognize your feelings as valid and accept that you may need time to work through them.
Avatar f tn s much harder and may even require some grief counseling to help come to terms with the loss. Many women do find that within a few months following a miscarriage they become pregnant again and go on to deliver a healthy baby. It really depends on when YOU and your parent feel up to the challenge of TTC again.
Avatar f tn m to a scheduled ultrasound got it done still bleeding and they told me I had a miscarriage baby was suppose to been 9 weeks but the baby stop growing at 6 weeks ....
Avatar f tn I'm so sorry for your loss. I had a miscarriage 8 weeks ago now, and there are still days I don't think I can make it. No one knows about me either. Not even my family, and I have several extended family members that are pregnant. One cousin is just two weeks ahead in her pregnancy of what I should've been in mine. I know the day she has her baby is going to be really hard. Its really hard and it really ***** that anyone has to go through this.
1817664 tn?1316993601 I am so sorry for your loss! My first ended in miscarriage as well. I went for an ultrasound (on Valentine's day no less) only to find out the baby had been dead inside of me for weeks. Ended up getting a d&c to remove the baby 2 days later only to find out while my baby was being scraped out my sister had given birth to her daughter. I couldn't even hold my niece at first because it made me so extrememly sad.
3198629 tn?1367038423 I'm sorry for your loss. It's going to take some time to get over the grief you are feeling. You cannot rush thru the grief or not deal with it because it will make you sick. There is no set time that you should feel better by either. I miscarried at 9.3 weeks on August 12th. We would of been half way thru too. We have to rely on IVF and so far we haven't had the chance to try again yet. If you need to talk PM me. Maybe we can get thru this together.
Avatar f tn Sorry for your loss!!! I recently was going through a "threatening miscarriage" and it scared the cap out of me!!! Praying for you and your family!