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I had a miscarriage at 8 wks. Back in june 2013 my baby was suppose to be due last month and my sister in law was pregnant at the sametime with a baby due a month after mines meaning hers was born this month i cant help but to feel anger/sadness can really bare to see the baby or even her..i try to avoid them as much possible but i really just wanna get over this i know i cant stay like this forever..

I'm so sorry to hear that :( Take it easy, let your body heal and when you feel the time is right try again. I know it doesn't make the loss and grief any easier but the majority of women experience atleast one miscarriage in their reproductive lifetime. I have had 2 and a full term stillbirth (cord related) so I understand your loss, but I also have 4 beautiful healthy kids and I'm 8 weeks pregnant.

I play my music loud to drown it out sometimes - my kids rock out to Foo Fighters, my 3 yr old can play a mean air guitar and my 6 yr old is a mean air drum player lol - they keep me going and very busy. I started my first meeting on Sunday - that was hard but I felt relief. I know I need aftercare - I know I need grief counseling too.

So on Saturday about lunch time I went into hospital as I was experiencing some bleeding. Found it was old blood and wasn't alot, may or may not be having a Miscarriage. Following morning I woke up, lots of fresh blood heavy period like and lots of cramping. Rushed back in straight to gynaecology ward as it's Sunday and hardly any staff. Get checked out and as I'm getting undressed for examination, I see it. Start freaking out that something like a massive clot is hanging out of me.

Sorry for your loss my heart goes out to to you and your family it's hard my mom's not passed but seems like it I have 4 kids and I'm pregnant my oldest is 7 well my step son is but my first born okay and they have only seen her once she doesn't call text say happy birthday or anything been that way my hole life she gave me up at 7 years old and I grew up in state custody always wonder what it would be like to have a mom and dad your days will get better and soon you will find it

One moinute im fine then the grief kicks in again and i still see her lying on the hospital bed lifeless.They say times a great healer i know its only been 6 weeks but i still cant get my head around it.If it wasnt for my two daughters i think i would have given up.Its just not fair my wife was only 45.

I googled complicated grief and found information at the Mayo.com site. "For some people, feelings of loss are debilitating and don't improve even after time passes. This is known as complicated grief. In complicated grief, painful emotions are so long lasting and severe that you have trouble accepting the loss and resuming your own life.

Well :( I went to my dr this morning for an ultrasound that I've been so excited about. I'm 7 weeks and was hoping to head my baby's heart beat but instead they told me they didn't hear/see anything and informed me that they believe I've had a missed miscarriage. They told me to come back Monday for another Ultrasound and of everything is the same that I would need to schedule a DNC. My heart is broken! I am 26, no kids.

I have no bledding and Im afraid to go under DC procedure. I had a DC procedure 8 month ago, due to a miscarriage at 4 month of pregn. I dont know if it good to wait for a coulpe of days, maybe the body expel itself the tissue or shall i Go through DC? Two miscrriage had already devastated me, I feel like there is no hope for me anymore. I desparately wanted the baby, but I am so unlucy. God, its too hard to cope with this grief. I wish none of you experiece this. Please write to me.

Maybe you can find a grief counselor. My HMO has a specialist in grief issues related to fertility, who works in the ob-gyn department. I had several appointments with her and it helped a lot. The first appointment, I basically just cried. It's helpful to talk to someone who has dealt a lot with grief issues that are specifically related with fertility, if that is what you're going through. I think that kind of grief is like no other kind. I hope you can find someone.

I am so sorry. I had a loss last year around this same time. My baby stopped growing at 12w5d and I didn't find out until I was over 16 weeks. It was such a shock and really hard on my DH and the kids, too. I still haven't told the kids about this baby yet b/c I don't want them to experience that pain again in case something were to happen. I grieved for quite a long time and I still think about my angel baby so much.

I'm sorry to hear about your girlfriend's miscarriage. Grief and depression can feel very similar, but also very different at the same time in my experience. It's raw and powerfully overwhelming, inescapable. Depression for me, at least, is numb and lifeless, a void of emotion rather an a devastating flood of emotion. Like the other posters said, it's very possible that what you're feeling right now is a natural grieving response to a major loss.

I know everyone handles grief differently. I guess this was just something I never expected. It kind of just knocked the life out of me.My husband has been a big help. If it wasn't for him, I don't think I would have ever left my house. It's everyone's looks that makes it hard to step out. Or even worse. The people who still come up and try congratulating me.

After my last miscarriage and thought I couldn't do IVF again, (in other words, when I thought I had hit the end of the road), I talked to the counselor at my ob-gyn's office who counsels people dealing with loss and infertility issues. You're probably still grieving the miscarriage, and grief doesn't exactly make you normal. See if you can find a counselor who specializes in these subjects, it helped me a whole lot.

You are not heartless for not feeling grief over your loss. Everyone deals with it in their own way. My husband just said it will be OK. And that was it. Then about a year later a friend of his at work had asked him to borrow 700$ to pay for his wife's d&c. He told me he was only going to lend him the money because he remembered how helpless he felt when we had "our" miscarriage. I wanted to cry because there I was thinking he didn't care and he did.

I was devastated as I had no symptoms whatsoever and thought the pregnancy was going well. I cried when they told me to expect the miscarriage to start any time. My husband has been "there" for me and listened to me sob and cry but he admitted he is actually relieved and that we're really too old to have a baby anyway and that now we can focus more on making money at work, raising our other 3 kids and getting beyond that baby stage.

I think i have complicated grief, due to my complex addictive family history. My mother was drunk most of my life (but is 180 days sober now). My brother was a heroin addict most of his adult life. My father was the enabler, not having enough strength to get the kids "away" from the traumas. I blame my parents partially for my brother, but blame my brother for his own actions too. But then i feel guilty about both feelings.

My friend recently found out she was pregnant again. She has been worried about it since she miscarried last time around. She told me this morning that she thinks she may be having another miscarriage. My husband and I are trying to have a baby as well and I don't know what to say to her. I told her she can talk to me whenever and that I am here for her but it just doesn't feel like enough. Any suggestions?

Part of me was relieved, and then I felt guilt and hated myself for feeling any type of relief, and then of course the rest of me felt nothing but intense grief at the baby I lost and that I felt I hadnt appreciated enough while I was lucky enough to have her. Its been two weeks since and though I am up out of bed and doing what I should I cant shake the grief and hurt at the loss of her. I also feel completly alone and slightly betrayed by my husband.

t understand either my grief for the miscarriage or the pain in my knee, and that was just about the lowest point ever.

There are professionals out there that focus on m/c and grief. You may find that to help. Grief is a terrible road to walk down and it can be quite bumpy. The road can start to feel like it goes on forever. Our bodies need time to heal it take 3 or more cycles for everything to regulate. Our general health may be the affected the most. It's very important to have a follow up app w your dr to ensure that your body is healing and that there are no signs of any complications.

” Regardless of what anyone says, a miscarriage is a miscarriage. You do not have to justify your grief or compare it to anyone else’s grief for it to be valid. A chemical pregnancy was still a pregnancy, and for many women, it’s still a loss of a baby and grief that will always they will carry for their entire lives. It’s also OK to not be too sad about a very early miscarriage and to decide you just want to try again.

I have had several miscarriages and have 4 beautiful babies with 1 on the way. The best advice I have is to take it one day at a time and when you all are ready enjoy each other. Don't be anxious about the process if it doesn't happen right away because by the grace of God it may, let it in due time. I personally trusted in Jesus through everything because God is a restorer but that's my testimony and yours is yours. Many blessings to you on this journey.

I'm right there with you.

My dad died this past Saturday, and I feel so much pain & guilt that I don't want to live with myself. He had spent several months in the hospital, then in a rehab. He had heart disease, lung disease & vascular disease. The doctors said how very ill he was, but he pulled through & was feeling like a million bucks. He was always so lively & active & he seemed like his old self again.

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