miscarriage grief and loss

I am very sorry for your loss hun. Prayers for you and your family. I wish you luck hun and God is here for you.

Grief is a very powerful emotion and you can have both grief and depression at the same time. Grief and depression are like brother and sister, if you will, and both can cause you to have feelings of suicide etc. So, what you need to do is get in to talk to someone who knows about both grief and bipolar. You need to move through this process of grieving and take care of yourself and your girlfriend. You can do this together, and support each other. I am so very sorry about your loss.

I'm so sorry to hear that :( Take it easy, let your body heal and when you feel the time is right try again. I know it doesn't make the loss and grief any easier but the majority of women experience atleast one miscarriage in their reproductive lifetime. I have had 2 and a full term stillbirth (cord related) so I understand your loss, but I also have 4 beautiful healthy kids and I'm 8 weeks pregnant.

I totally understand how you feel, I had a miscarriage in Nov 2012 and I had a D&C done at the end of November. 1 week after I had the d and c done, my sister found out that she was pregnant. Was I mad? Yes I was.. but I never told n e one b/c I know that it wasn't her fault. and I just at the bright side that I would have another niece to love and spoil.

Hi there, Im 25 and just had my first miscarriage. I was in hospital for quite a few days, they did a camera Op to check for en ectopic pregnancy then the next day they decided that it was non-going so they had to do a D&C. I seem to have an emotional detachment from it all..I cried while in hospital when people spoke to me about the miscarriage or the chance that it would be one but now I dont seem to have any emotions concerning the loss of my baby. I named it and recognize it but..

I was told by several doctors that I was going to have a very difficult time conceiving without medical help. It was hard news to swallow but my now husband and I had faith things would work out, especially since I am still only 21. I found out two weeks ago that I was finally pregnant. 5 weeks along. I was so excited. We told our friends and family. Then this past Tuesday night I began spotting. Wednesday, my husband took me to the hospital where I lost my baby.

We also have a miscarriage forum here where you can share your loss and grief with other women who understand. I'm posting a link below. I hope you have a support network of family and friends to get you through this time. If you need to talk or just want to vent you can PM me anytime. Again I am very sorry you are having to go through this. Losing a child is the worst pain a mother can feel. With time it does get easier. I find little things help me to get by...

I googled complicated grief and found information at the Mayo.com site. "For some people, feelings of loss are debilitating and don't improve even after time passes. This is known as complicated grief. In complicated grief, painful emotions are so long lasting and severe that you have trouble accepting the loss and resuming your own life.

There are professionals out there that focus on m/c and grief. You may find that to help. Grief is a terrible road to walk down and it can be quite bumpy. The road can start to feel like it goes on forever. Our bodies need time to heal it take 3 or more cycles for everything to regulate. Our general health may be the affected the most. It's very important to have a follow up app w your dr to ensure that your body is healing and that there are no signs of any complications.

Take the time to grieve your loss and your dream. I misscarried in 2012 and got pregnant three months later. Stay positive and thank your body for knowing what to do even though you feel hurt right now. Your body is an amazing machine and will give you a healthy baby in the future. All the best.

He will be watching over you and your baby xo. Call your doctor and take whatever help you can get. Keep good company with positive friends. You can do this. I wish you peace to bring you comfort, strength to heal and loving memories to forever hold in your heart.

hi sorry for the grief and lost. just stay calm and think that you can make it. dont be afraid and hold on to ur faith. i had m/c (d&c)yesterday for 3rd tym. everything happen is with a reason. make sure that uv done first the s.o.p before concluding that u'll have to have m/c. have u/s, blood works and etc. d&c here in our place had a lot of steps.

painful physically and emotionally stress and my baby is doing great

Hello- last week I experienced the death of a close relative after trying to resuscitate him. The next day I found out I am pregnant. I'm 7 wks along and struggling with the grief and worry over how it will affect the baby. Has anyone experienced something similar? How did you handle it? Thanks in advance.

I am 37 and after a miscarriage i am not pregnant after first IUI attempt. I am almost 13 weeks so feel v blessed. It will happen and it is worht every bit of grief you go through to get there.

I do think that a grief and loss group may be of great help to you and you will help many others also. Call your local hospital and find out who to contact. The groups are made up of woman who have suffered losses also. I wish you the very best.

How heartbreaking, so sorry for your loss. In the UK we have a miscarriage association website, I'm not sure if there's one for where you live but maybe it's something to look into. They help with loss and grief.

One moinute im fine then the grief kicks in again and i still see her lying on the hospital bed lifeless.They say times a great healer i know its only been 6 weeks but i still cant get my head around it.If it wasnt for my two daughters i think i would have given up.Its just not fair my wife was only 45.

Looked to loved ones for support and find a why to grieve and remember the loss that lets you move on, as heatherNalan did. The turning point for me was after the due date had passed and I could get past the "I should be pregnant right now" phase. After a few weeks of "now I should have a newborn to hold" thoughts, I finally have let it go. I will never forget, and neither will you, but it will get better. I just takes time. Good luck to you.

If the embryo stopped growing and no heartbeat is detected and she is also bleeding bright red blood with clots it is very likely a miscarriage. BUT the womb in very early pregnancy can be such a mystery and the bleeding could be the result of something else. Her dates could be off because the dates are merely estimations.

Coping with a pregnancy loss is what most people would say the worst time of their life.After a miscarriage or stillbirth, your grief may be so overwhelming that you wonder if you will ever be happy again. You may never truly “get over” your loss, but know that your grief will become more manageable over time especially if you recognize your feelings as valid and accept that you may need time to work through them.

I went to the doc today and he said my bleeding is prob a miscarriage. I was about 4 weeks. :( So sad.... How do all of you deal with miscarriage? When is it safe to start trying again?

I am also so very sorry for your lost, similar thing happened to me last year and I was in severe pain. I'm 7wks today and been spotting on and off for a few weeks now but, no pain. Was wondering if you had any pain with your bleeding?

So I had a miscarriage a month ago and this just *****! I went to hospital last night to see my best friend's brand new baby. I'm so happy for her, but my grieve is terrible. I put on what I think passed for a happy face, but could hardly make it to my car before the tears started. Wish I could just wake up tomorrow and it would be months down the road and I would feel better. I hate having to wait on "time" to get over this.

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