She lives in another country, and I am in
Canada. I am now in the process of her immigrating to
Canada. We were married last year (2012). I was worried about a condom falling off incident six years prior from 2005 in a former relationship, so I had an HIV test in 2011. I tested negative.
My wife and I are both monogamous and we are not IV drug users or users of ANY kinds of drugs, period. However, she has an irrational fear of HIV.