I had oral sex with a woman not too long ago, a few days ago I started feeling a weird numb/burning sensation in my lip
, then a small spot appear under my lip
on the right, it has since grown a lot (now about 3mm diameter) its like under the skin its hard and painful when I touch it.
I am worried I may have contracted herpes...
If so, which type, and I've read numerous things on getting rid of the sores (most contradict each other), some say apply hot, some say apply cold, any suggestions?