What you're experience sounds very much like a normal body's reaction to a new HSV infection and I think that, until he gets tested and proves othe
rwise, you should assume that he has HSV and passed it along to you.
Most people who have the
virus are not aware that the
y have it. Most people who transmit the
virus do so when the
y have no symptoms whatsoever.
This is why HSV2 is such a difficult disease to track... way too many people have it and don't know.