My best friend was on Effexor...
and it was terrible..he switched to
Lexapro and it was
and is great for him, too.
Now, having said all that...I'm not sure starting an SSRI and going through withdrawal at the same time is a good thing...never done it that way, and probably wouldn't want to. But, if you think it's time for the Lexapro...the sooner you start, the better. They wean you onto it the first week up to 10mg.