From your description, I am uncertain you have any infection
of your urethra, prostate, or elsewhere in your urinary tract
. If you do, you did not acquire it as a result of the handjob you describe. Hand to genital contact in theory can transmit herpes or HPV (neither of which can possibly be the cause of your symptoms), but carries absolutely no risk for bacterial STD or urinary tract infection. So the direct answers to your questions are:
1) No. 2) No.