Not a lot of men out there are interested in
a sexless marriage in the long term. (
Of course, exceptions would be if
a woman is married to
a man who is also not interested in sex, or is using her as a cover for gay activities that would not be acceptable for whatever reason.) I am just puzzled and a little worried for a child, that you would be willing to go through the cost, stress and pain of IVF, if there is a good change the marriage will not last.