You have <span style = 'background-color: #dae8f4'>to</span>
separate out some of this stuff.
It sounds like she has sensory defensiveness - texture of her food can make
her vomit. That's not a "pampering" thing, it's a physical reaction to
The other stuff sounds like learned behaviors. On the one hand, it's fine if she wants to
change her dress all day at home. Put on a different one, hang that one up. That's fine. Before she can change again, the previous outfit has to
be hung up neatly.