How to break up with psycho boyfriend

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6548496 tn?1384490023 how do you deal with a break up with your boyfriend? Me and my boyfriend just broke up because he cheated on me once again i need some advice somebody help~~~!!!!!!!!!
7989976 tn?1403493624 But he has a tendancy of not giving a poop about anyone or anything when he is high which is why he got fired. He eventually would stop showing up for work to go out with his friends and smoke because he had to money for it. As you can imagine once he ran out of money, he was unable to smoke anymore. He was also kicked out of school for not going. At that point him and I made a deal not to smoke or drink unless we were with each other.
Avatar n tn I started dating a guy that I had known for a while and it finally snapped in babydaddys head when he saw my boyfriend holding the baby and our son was laughing with him and when baby daddy would carry him all he would do was cry since he never spent time with him. After that he picked him up 3 days a week and spent everyday with him. It ended up not working out with the guy I was with just because we were more of friends.
Avatar f tn Hi there, So, you are having a baby with him, is that right? Are you both teenagers? Lots of big things coming your way very soon. Are you living with his parents too or are you are with yours and he's with his? Sorry for all the questions, I'm just trying to understand. Do you have any support from your own family? On the surface, I think it is smart to expect certain things out of the father of our children.
Avatar f tn So I broke up with my boyfriend after a somewhat rocky seven year relationship. The guy didnt treat me great. I often heard (mostly in rocky times) "your a ****** joke" and well he could yell for hours. Just couldnt calm down. There were lost of trust issues, compatibility issues but we were crazy about each other. We had so much history. So I persevered through the years with a positive outlook that has caused me palpitations and constant anxiety about the future.
Avatar f tn You had a life before them and you will have a life after them. But doing drugs to numb the pain is not the answer. you need to talk to someone about how youre feeling. Trust me this is not the way to do it.
Avatar n tn t bear to break his heart and do what? Send him back home? What if I make a mistake? If I was to break up with him.. how the hell would I do this? It's scary to think about... but if it's not going to work in the long run, isn't waiting going to make it even worse for him? Sometimes I just want freedom to explore any other options, like meeting someone in my area who has all the qualities I want in someone. But then I think about how loved I am..
Avatar f tn Let me start out with this- I love my boyfriend to death. He's kind, caring, sweet, loving, attractive, smart...everything you could hope for in a significant other. We have great conversations, he's my best friend, we just get along wonderfully. There's one problem though. His voice has been annoying the hell out of me lately. It's not his normal voice, it's these impersonations, I guess you would call them, that he does.
Avatar f tn So i posted a little while ago, about having a boyfriend who talks down to me constantly. Well I finaly got up the courage and broke up with him. I tried to act like an adult, and not put the blame on him for anything in particular. I just told him I wasnt happy, and i think its because we dont see things the same way anymore. He yelled a bunch and told me he never wanted to hear from me again. Which I suppose is for the best. I just need some advice on moving on, some inpsirational words.
Avatar f tn I honestly wouldnt do it with the boyfriend if you think your step dad is going to be mad. He might need some time to process that his princess is going to have a baby. that way he'll have time to cool down before seeing your boyfriend.
Avatar f tn Being attracted to other people is not something to break up over. Have you never looked at another guy while in a relationship? The point is that he's not acting on these things. I know one thing that helps my husband I is talking about our fantisies or attractions. The hubs has a weird thing for redheads so once in a while I'll buy a box of washout hair dye to surprise him. The point is give him some slack he's normal, it doesn't mean he's cheating or will cheat.
8399001 tn?1399031888 I swear to god my boyfriend thinks he's the one who is pregnant. Hes psycho, always angry, mood swings outta nowhere, he has the gas, the appetite, the hiccups, everything. But I'm a hormonal wreck, and this isnt helping. I dont know if he will survive this pregnancy lol.
Avatar f tn My family wants me to break up with my boyfriend and my boyfriends family thinks he's too involved with me and his dad doesn't really support it but his mom does(they're divorced btw). Anyway I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 20 and we've been together for almost a year.
Avatar f tn Im 23 (will be 24 when I give birth) and sweetie even I get dirty looks and comments about how we will support this baby when me and my boyfriend both have great jobs its ridiculous and unfair but thats how people are. You gotta just ignore it.
376148 tn?1309899577 Men take things literally...he may very well have not WANTED to leave. Suck it up and call him or go see him. Tell him how sorry you are, that you never really MEANT for him to leave it was just said in the heat of the argument. Then see where it goes from there.
10032452 tn?1414659721 I had to break up with mine because he was putting me towards severe depression. He wanted to induce miscarriage, punch my stomach if it 'ever came to that', his words. He also tried talking to my dad about abortion saying 'there's still time', he did that after the breakup and everything. My dad told him to stay away from me. The ex was actually trying to come down here because 'he still loved me'. He kept saying that he still loved me.
Avatar f tn Seriously.. Complete nonsense if you ask me... Like last night he gets mad cause I said I'm sleepy. Or this morning he texted me someone's number then I called him and asked why did he send me that. He said it was a mistake. I said OK.. So if it wasn't meant for me WHO DID YOU MEAN TO SEND THE NUMBER TO.. Couldn't answer now he's saying I don't love him..
Avatar m tn I don't know anything about your gf, but I know when I went through major surgery I pushed a lot of people away. My thought process on it was that I didn't want to cause them pain to have to see and deal with me when I had to go through with it all. Which is pretty stupid, but that was the idea I had. Maybe she could be in that mind frame, so giving her some time can help. After the ordeal is over things can go back to how it was before.
250143 tn?1320170629 If she knew what a struggle it is for me to keep going, to keep functioning, to not give in to my shadow side and break down completely. If she knew how close I’d been… if she knew how hard I work so as not to be hospitalised. How can I best speak to this colleague [who I only see on Saturdays, and won't for a while after next week]? Or indeed anyone else who says such things. I never know what to say without feeling ashamed and humiliated.
Avatar m tn I know how you feel. It seems like this feeling will never go away and you cannot imagine yourself with someone else...what a bleak, depressing and dangerous feeling. But please remember there is hope. I know it's an old cliche but time really does heal...when I left my husband after 16 yrs. I was a mess. I missed my "old life" so much and I truly felt like there was no light at the end of the tunnel.
Avatar m tn You need to know that when you say something, make a demand, that you need to have a plan to back up that demand with a consequence, or he will not adhere to any plan, if he doesn't have to. It sounds pretty hopeless if he's telling you that he's going to kill you, that's "threatening death" you said you called the police, did they come? what happened when they came? You say you left, and went back.. Did you go to your parent's home when that happened?
1381451 tn?1288095766 So pretty much after that is when she broke up with me. I then tried to ask her to give me a second chance but she kept saying that she can't do that, that it would be to difficult for the both of us. This has been the toughest thing I have ever been through, all I want is her back. But I'm not sure if she will come back. I also asked her if we could talk yesterday and she said not right now we need our space first. I just wanna know what you guys think.
Avatar f tn He needs to tell her if she gets mad then oh well they aren't together anymore he's with you.....
10541177 tn?1411242619 My boyfriend and I have a baby on the way I'm 17 weeks. But I feel stuck with him like I'm having to settle because he lies and breaks promises. Such as he promised to stop smoking weed so he could get a job and he still smoked and failed the drug test and didn't get the job.
Avatar f tn I have a 3 yr old daughter and recently found out I'm a month pregnant.. Me and my boyfriend broke up after a huge fight..my parents don't want him in our lives..I moved to another state the same week which were our plans in the first place but now we won't even talk or text.. I love him dearly.. I miss him so much but it seems our relationship is over..I'm very depressed wishing and praying we can work things out..we said mean stuff to each other...
Avatar f tn It sounds like your trying to make me feel guilty for how I feel or if i decided to break up with him. Which doesn't make sense seeing as though I'm not the one who chose to break my significant others trust, it's much more than just "i don't look like a porn star" he broke my trust the first time I let it go and expressed how it deeply hurt me and he told me he'd never do it again and yet he did it again and then lied to my face about it.