How to break up with narcissist
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I don't know anything about your gf, but I know when I went through major surgery I pushed a lot of people away. My thought process on it was that I didn't want to cause them pain to have to see and deal with me when I had to go through with it all. Which is pretty stupid, but that was the idea I had. Maybe she could be in that mind frame, so giving her some time can help. After the ordeal is over things can go back to how it was before.
I know how you feel. It seems like this feeling will never go away and you cannot imagine yourself with someone else...what a bleak, depressing and dangerous feeling.
But please remember there is hope.
I know it's an old cliche but time really does heal...when I left my husband after 16 yrs. I was a mess. I missed my "old life" so much and I truly felt like there was no light at the end of the tunnel.
I had posted this question on another forum, and several nice folks from this board came over and suggested I should post it here instead. So...here goes...
I'm 29 years old. Since I was 21, I've moved away from where I was born, (over 600 miles to be exact) had numerous failed relationships with many different women, never managed to finish college, and feel myself stuck in a dead-end (although relatively well paying) job.
So I broke up with my boyfriend after a somewhat rocky seven year relationship. The guy didnt treat me great. I often heard (mostly in rocky times) "your a ****** joke" and well he could yell for hours. Just couldnt calm down. There were lost of trust issues, compatibility issues but we were crazy about each other. We had so much history. So I persevered through the years with a positive outlook that has caused me palpitations and constant anxiety about the future.
Had anyone of u ever deal with a possessive parent in law? How did u managed or to how much extent had this affect your relationship with your spouse?
I got married last year and 6months since we are living together. In my case it's my husband father. He is not ready to let us live our life. He likes to control everything. Even when we go out he would call several times. I cannot do anything in the house like moving furniture and he even controls my husband business.
I am not sure if you have solid reasons to suspect him to be HIV positive. Normally, not every one around is HIV positive.
Hypothetically if he is infected and this was the only unprotected exposure, odds of transmission in MTF scenario is 1 in 1250, if you are from a high income country and 1 in 333 if you are from a low income nation.
We wish you good luck.
Hi there, So, you are having a baby with him, is that right? Are you both teenagers? Lots of big things coming your way very soon. Are you living with his parents too or are you are with yours and he's with his? Sorry for all the questions, I'm just trying to understand.
Do you have any support from your own family?
On the surface, I think it is smart to expect certain things out of the father of our children.
So i posted a little while ago, about having a boyfriend who talks down to me constantly. Well I finaly got up the courage and broke up with him. I tried to act like an adult, and not put the blame on him for anything in particular. I just told him I wasnt happy, and i think its because we dont see things the same way anymore. He yelled a bunch and told me he never wanted to hear from me again. Which I suppose is for the best. I just need some advice on moving on, some inpsirational words.
t bear to break his heart and do what? Send him back home? What if I make a mistake? If I was to break up with him.. how the hell would I do this? It's scary to think about... but if it's not going to work in the long run, isn't waiting going to make it even worse for him? Sometimes I just want freedom to explore any other options, like meeting someone in my area who has all the qualities I want in someone.
But then I think about how loved I am..
Thank you, Your right it is her problem if she doesn't accept it. I wish I could wait till I have the baby to say anything to her, but I'm seeing her tonight. She wanted to spend time with her 3 granddaughters for the first time in 6 months or more. I don't even want to let her, but the spouse has already confirmed it. I've already told myself if she is rude in anyway at all I'm taking my girls home with me and she doesn't have to be apart of there life or the baby.
After all the bs i put up with and everything ive been through with his suicidal *** and his crazy ex baby mama and he says if it werent for this baby hed leave me... is he kidding!? Newsflash i wanted to leave so long ago and stuck it out bc i love him and 30 days before my due date he says that! I told him ok well a kid wont even make me stay with you so i need to start making new plans..
I have tried and failed at a couple of long distant relationships in college. It may work to begin with but chances are with the distance it is going to be tough. Not saying it can not work or will not work but it is tough. You will have friends and she will have friends and you will be doing different things at different times. And the last thing either wants to do is cheat.
So I think this is something where you and her should sit down and have a nice long talk about.
i didnt have a problem with this but because he lived with his parents i thought he would prefer coming to mine... anyway everyrime i went to his we had to sit and have dinner with his parents then sit with them or go up to his bedroom like teenagers.... more arguments started over petty things. Everytime we argued he would not talk to me for days giving me silent treatments. Or saying it was over. The last arguement caused him to end us for good. I was heart broken.
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