How to break up with narcissist

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Cries and has a total breakdown when I break up with him, but has no follow through on his promises to make things better. He says he loves me, but only really when I've threatened to leave him. Talks about marriage and having kids, but is totally emotionally distant most of the time. It's making me crazy!! Last time I broke up with him, he pretended to fall down the stairs and black out. He texted me 27 times in 1 hr when I was out with my friends. It was insane!
Cries and has a total breakdown when I break up with him, but has no follow through on his promises to make things better. He says he loves me, but only really when I've threatened to leave him. Talks about marriage and having kids, but is totally emotionally distant most of the time. It's making me crazy!! Last time I broke up with him, he pretended to fall down the stairs and black out. He texted me 27 times in 1 hr when I was out with my friends. It was insane!
You don't want him trying to find you and start messing up your life, because you forced his girlfriend to break up with him. She needs to find out on her own. I'm sorry if that sounds mean, but you need to also protect yourself. I know you want to help her out, but like I said you really don't know what his actions will be.
9% of the population who know how to act with dignity. Well, I'm really glad to hear that you are going to talk to a therapist, life is just too short to hang around people that are overly controlling, and if this has been the case since childhood, of course you would benefit greatly by talking to a therapist that can help you to make right what's wrong in your life. There's just far too much of the good life , far too much happiness available for you.
He began to get a little intimate with her, oral to be exact, but soon broke up with her to be with me..(or so I thought). He started telling me how much he loved oral sex which scared me immensely because I had only had my first kiss with him weeks before. The pressuring went on, until I found out he had also in this time gone back to the "other girl" and been intimate with her. When I found out I felt like death, I could not stop sobbing and felt like life was over for me.
She seems to resent the fact that she or my MIL will watch Avery if I have an appointment or doctor visit to go to or occasionally go to dinner with a friend. My MIL is more that willing to help out but she works full-time. She told me last week that I was irresponsible (which was very hurtful) and I asked her to give me an example as to how I am irresponsible and she said because you don't mow your own lawn. Give me a break!!
You misrepresented yourself here and I responded to how you worded your initial and second post. Break up with your girlfriend as I think it will be best for both parties and good luck on your quest.
I was mesmerized. i love it. i got up and tried to do some of the moves but it was a joke on Meegy. OMG! how do they do that. My son used to dance that way, he is tall and thin and he can throw his body around like that. when he was little we all danced, not my hub, but me and my son and his friends. oh man he is really my s.son i hate to think of how he has been put in danger. even the ac admitted to me his first guilt is to his son. i cant really even think about it.
I broke up with my ex-b/f of 4.5yrs & father to our 16-month-old son a few days ago cause he had issues with bein honest with me. We argued for a bit & he admitted to bein happy to bein single cause I'm too much "drama". He also said he wasn't sorry for lyin & everythin was my fault. Eventually we agreed to be friends & to continue to raise our son under the same roof so it would be easier.
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I tried it first at starbux ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm how are Yoo? I forgot to ask. you seem good, medhelp. rested. like you took some time off and NOW youre back to hit the trenches! or something. well, I second that emotion and posy, I am tryin im a tryin ooh spooked skeer! ::biting fingernails:: anxiously we lost yuki today. I would take the blame, but really she wanted to leave two weeks ago and the director just like whats that word railroaded? caboosed? her into it.
I want to do writing but I feel pretty wack mentally and physically this mig going on two and a half days ima shoot myself in the head bout time to be in concert with kurt ha ha not so funy sorry no daddy. my dad called last nite but he forgot I wasn't feeling good and just dished dirt on my uncle. oh I told you that. the ac is not. rafi is not. lit is not. cope could be. but I don't feel good can I tell you x rated stuff? oh but that would compromise me.
I would like to have her come crying to me about how superficial she is and has made her life. Ugh. I want to say I'd like to second think about helping her, but I can't. God. Yes, God. Please God, give me the strength to detach myself from these reckless feelings. Do your healing and heal her - let her know just how evil she has been to other people. Please. I don't know if I believe in you and that just emphasizes my faith, but I figured I'd give it a try.
In the past few weeks, we have seen sibutramine (Meridia) pulled from the shelves due to an increased risk of heart attacks, and now lorcaserin (Lorqess) has failed to pass muster with the FDA because of concerns about cancer.
My brother hasn't had anything to do with her in the last several years. No one wants to be around her because she is so nasty. She always has to put people down, and it seems she is extremely jealous of me. Recently, she said in an extremely bitter tone, that she can't stand looking at me and my 2 siblings because we look like our grandmother and father. (What do we need to get plastic surgery?) She said she doesn't trust anyone, especially her own children.
and the fact that shes not giving up, and that hes a nice guy doesnt want to just ignore her if she emails, they are still in contact via email for over 4 years. so because of this particular email i wanted to break up (and i know its the right thing to do), but i do love him (we get along to well) and he says that im the only one he loves right now and hes been trying to find end to their 'relationship', yes they also met up last week which i found out thru email aswell.
lets go out at break and get somthing' so we do ... plus she want to talk about Roadkill how dreadful he is. and we go to fancy market she like its a millin dollar for everything and Hoity Ppl everywhere its just ... ugh we get this superfancy cupcakes which I ate one it turn out not so grate I was like rilly? for that much money? tons of frosting like the cake headache kind? member how I get that. yeah in my forehead um. theres a lakes game tonite uh? im missing. or missed it.
45 tried to sleep with the help of a sleeping pill, 45 mins later got woken up. Got up went to see Dr, gave me a prescription for Zimovane, ( a sleeping pill ), but I went to the chemist and got some Kalms and Zinc Capsuals instead, my trust of tablets of any kind is at an all time low ( now why would that be ??.. ). It's now 17:30 have one or two minor flushes, back aches a bit across shoulders, maybe being hunched over this darn computer, hey!!!!
I'm confused because I just don't trust him. He doesn't seem to want to break up with me, but goes in and out of putting forth effort with things. I do love him, but fear that I'm setting myself up for great heartache later. We both have children from previous relationships, but we don't spend time around each other's kids. That has also been hard on our relationship, because it feels like things haven't been moving forward, and he doesn't feel his kids are ready yet. He says he loves me.
He painted a picture of me that I was abusive, unsociable, neglectful of my children, disrespectful to his parents and to him and suicidal. And if I dont shape up to know what makes him happy, what his goal are, and what inspires him, he will continue his emotional imfidelity, if not with the one he's talking with now it will be with another.. And, I said how is it that I became the one at fault and have to make amends? And he said he's willing to walk away from it all.
some friends suspect i have a mild eating disorder, my sister thinks i just want attention, some people just think im overreating, and my mom thinks i just have no self control and duno how to deal with things. all might be a little true. but there has to be something else. i feel very lost and alone.
Now, I can't stop feeling guilty, feeling like I could have put up with more abuse. I know how crazy this sounds but when I'd fight with him, physical or emotional, I'd tell myself that I was doing society a favor by putting up with this at least he wasn't doing this to anyone else or victimizing anyone else. I kept him at home, confined so that he wouldn't break any laws and hurt any other girls.
The dog was terrified of him and very sick with stomach problems, and he went to pick her up with one hand under the stomach, and out of extreme pain and fear she bit him. He then tried to chase her down and pull her out from under a bed to "break her neck," all the while dragging me along screaming at him to stop and in hysterics. When he couldn't reach her under the bed, he gave up.
although it is more expensive, it probably will help with this issue. check with your physician if they are suetable to your case.
I am sorry that you have to deal with people's rude comments. Most people do not GET it. We do what we can. I bet if they felt the way we felt they would not get out of bed. My life goes on no matter how terrible i feel....Hang in there sweety!!
When he needed someone to pay attention to him, you'd be there to love and dote on him in your relationship. But after a few days, he'd be done for a while and break up with you. It was definitely not a healthy relationship and I'm so sorry you have to deal with him and his immaturities.
So, wouldn't you think that by now doctors would have come up with a simple way by which to weed out those nasties who have the temerity to waste their time. Wouldn't you think they might have thought to EDUCATE the patient for a better consult... by now. Really. Something as simple as a list of terms & definitions applicable to the type of consult scheduled so that the doctor and their patient are actually speaking the same language.
As for the bad relationship thing...I dont know how to avoid wanting to talk to her. I feel that I am scarred from this relationship and the 2 attempts I made at dating the females fell for me right away and I found that I couldnt get over the bad relationship so I had to end it. I cant move on and i cant get over it ! Darn catch 22's. 1. Anyway...
It happend another time when he wanted to break up with me because he didn't think he can make me happy. Is that suppose to be normal. Through all this I still love him and want to marry him and at least have one child. He wants as to be together also and to get married. How do I put him cheating and having a child with someone else while we are engaged past me to move on to a happier me and happier and healthier relationship and marriage.
I guess in your shoes, I would go with him to the therapist the first time, say what happened, say to him with the therapist there how you felt, and then let him and the therapist discuss stuff without you there (in the event he wants to tell the shrink something he doesn't want you to hear).
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