about the bleeding-1month is too long, perhaps your cervical cuff did not heal correctly ,,,,advice--contact you gyn. Im 46 also and on vivelle too, so far no problems from it, my doctor indicated I would be on it a lot longer than 6 months, more like 10 years.
After ny surgery I did not really bleed more like spotting and it was brown which means old blood...if you are bleeding pink or red, I would be concerned.