really confused cant have normal intercourse wont do anal - sexually assaulted. currently using lidocaine
cream and liquid lidocaine
. not helping. tear everytime with intercourse and swell up like a balloon "down there" and out of "commission" at least two weeks. also have diahrea for three days or so after intercourse and blood. No STDs. husband does
understand but can be frustrating. please help anything would be great. last
doctor i saw didn't help.